(1)Temperance: Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation. 一、节制:食不过饱,饮不过量。 (吃是第一位的,饮食决定了一个人的健康水平,有了健康才能谈其他)
(2)Silence: Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation. 二、缄默:言则于人于己有益,不作鸡毛蒜皮的闲扯。 (不要因为自己想说而说,你说了什么不是关键,对方接收到的(对方受益的)才是关键。知彼为先,注重倾听而不是发言。时间对每个人都是宝贵的,把时间让路给“大石头”而不是“沙子”。)
(3)Order: Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time.
三、条理:物归其位,做事之前制定时间表,按照计划,在相应的时间内完成应该做的事情。
(计划与组织,无计划不工作)
(大脑是强大的运算器,而不是存储器)
(4)Resolution: Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.
四、决断:做事应该果断,不要拖泥带水,一旦决定就要付诸行动,还要坚持到底。
(不纠结,有坚持的信念,你坚持了,别人才会跟你走)
(5)Frugality: Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing.
五、节俭:不要做无益的花销,杜绝不必要的浪费。
(断舍离)
(6)Industry: Lose no time; be always employ'd in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions.
六、勤勉:不浪费时间,时时刻刻都要用于正经事,戒除一切不必要的行动。
(把时间给大石头)
(7)Sincerity: Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly.
七、诚恳:绝对不可以欺骗他人,考虑问题应公平公正,襟怀坦荡,发表观点时要有理有据,尊重事实。
(品格决定论)
(8)Justice: Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty.
八、正直:不做有损他人之事,不要放弃履行行善助人的义务,从而伤害他人。
(品格决定论)
(9)Moderation: Avoid extreams; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.
九、中庸:为人处事不要极端偏激,对待他人的一时发泄,应当加以宽容,不要斤斤计较,怀恨记仇。
(大度,随和的心态)
(10)Cleanliness: Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation.
十、清洁:注意仪表,身体、衣服和住所都应当力求清洁。
(自律。清洁的环境让人愉悦)
(11)Tranquility: Be not distuibed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.
十一、沉着:不要因为琐事或者难以避免的不测而烦恼。
(心智成熟,专注影响圈而非关注圈)
(12)Chastity: Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dulness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another's peace or reputation.
十二、贞节:切忌房事过度,以免伤害身体或有损自己或他人的安宁和名誉。
(身体的平衡,不过分放纵欲望)
(13)Humility: Imitate Jesus and Socrates.
十三、谦虚:效法耶酥和苏格拉底。
(保持谦卑的态度)